你如何處理誤解？
每個(gè)人在生活中都有遭到誤解的時(shí)候，有的人選擇一笑置之，有的人選擇有效溝通。無論采用哪種方式，在面對誤解時(shí)，請記得包容。
1. 寧波華外小學(xué)部609 俞鴻濤
There was a time when the money in the drawer should go missing when I was 9. My mother believed there was no denying that I had stolen it. So critical was the blame on me. Fortunately, after my father produced evidence that I was clean, we could draw a conclusion that I was misunderstood.
My way to cope with the dilemma was responding with a smile. Believe it or not, a smile is a bridge which can keep more and more people communicating better.
2. 寧波華外小學(xué)部609 楊倩倩
As far as I know, 50% of people will be unhappy if misunderstood by their friends.
I shared the same feeling once. I remember myself crying and staying up late into the night. Therefore, the next day I wrote to my best friend, telling her the whole story. Luckily, she replied soon, saying that she was sorry that she had misunderstood me. Additionally, our friendship has been strong ever since.
So, I firmly believe that proper communication is a great way to get rid of misunderstanding, though it is inevitable for us to meet with it at times.
3. 寧波華外小學(xué)部609 陳嘉怡
I worked hard in school. When getting home for the weekend, I just wanted to relax. However, my parents thought I was too lazy, which made me annoyed. To prove myself, I explained how I studied again and again, showing them my wonderful schoolwork and my rapid progress. Finally, we reached an agreement.
From this, I think it is of great importance to communicate to convince the others when misunderstanding arises.
4. 寧波華外小學(xué)部610 陳紫荊
One day I was blamed for making my friend burst into tears. Actually, it was not my fault. I decided not to talk to her. After a few days' cold war, I chose to ask her what had happened. Since the talk, we become close friends again.
To my mind, what water is to fish, just like understanding is to us. Only when we use time to communicate properly can we get rid of misunderstanding.
5. 寧波華外小學(xué)610 宋昊
Last year, my desk mate lost his favorite pen. So sad was he that he lost interest in everything. He suspected I stole it. I tried to prove my innocence, but in vain. He searched my desk when I was out. Disappointed as I was, I said, "If you don't mind, use mine." Fortunately he found it in his backpack later.
The reason why I reach out to others is that we should be always sincere and helpful to friends although there is misunderstanding sometimes.
